Self-Confidence

While I was watching a collegiate basketball game on TV, I was amazed by the performance of Letran Knight's Kevin Alas. He seem to have the highest confidence level on all of the arena. He made almost every single shot that he threw. He scored his career high 43 points and it's mainly because of his self-confidence.

Self-confidence really help a person improve his life. It makes him more effective and more productive on his job according to Self-Confidence Aids in Move Up Workplace Ladder. It was stated here that self-confidence is a key determinant of workplace success. And there is a strong correlation between confidence and occupational success.

But how can we improve our self-confidence? It starts with a smile. A smile is the best accessory a man could wear during a job interview or business conference. A smile could  make a very good impression on part of the person in front of you.  It sends a message that you are comfortable with yourself and with what you are saying or doing.

Next is by making an eye-contact. Eye contact makes a connection between you and the person that you are talking to. It shows your sincerity about the things that you are saying and makes you more believable. This really helps a lot specially on those people who are related to sales.

Another is by believing in yourself. How could others believe you if you can not even believe in your self? Forget what the other people are saying and focus on how you do your job. It would help you be more productive and effective. Never mind the standards of other people, you are the one who will be presenting and not them.

Dressing properly is also a key factor on building a strong self-confidence. It makes you look more powerful and creates a very good impression specially if you are going in a business related situation. It could carry your performance and make people forget about the little flaws on your presentation. 

 Talking very fast is one of the common sign of being nervous. Talking slowly but clearly will help you minimize your error and lets you point out your ideas. It would also help you watch your grammar. People will also have the chance to listen carefully.

And last but not the least, praying. If you believe in a higher power, whether God, or another spiritual force, it can be a real boost to self-confidence to say a silent prayer. This helps you to take a step back from your immediate situation, to see the wider picture and to seek help from something or someone greater than yourself.